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BFF Indy is marking another year of building real friendships, supporting local businesses, and creating space for women to feel like they belong.

 

What began as a small grassroots effort has grown into a community reaching tens of thousands of women across Central Indiana, with regular in-person events and partnerships that strengthen both social connection and the local economy. This year’s birthday celebration offered a snapshot of that impact, and why Indianapolis is paying attention.

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OUR STORY

What Started as One Woman Looking for Friends Is Now a Citywide Community

BFF Indy was created to solve a simple but deeply common problem: making real friendships as an adult.

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In 2021, after moving to Indianapolis and working remotely without an existing social circle, FrancesMary Loughead found how difficult it could be to make friends as an adult.

 

What started as casual Bachelor watch parties quickly turned into group outings, real friendships, and a growing realization that many women were craving the same connection.

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That insight led to the creation of BFF Indy: a women-led community designed to make friendship more accessible through intentional, in-person events. In just its first year, BFF Indy grew to over 20,000 members, connecting women across Indianapolis and beyond. Two years later, that number has doubled.

A CELEBRATION ROOTED IN
REAL CONNECTION

The BFF Indy 2nd Birthday Celebration brought together women from Indianapolis and surrounding suburbs for a day centered on genuine connection and shared experiences.

 

Many attendees arrived alone and left with new friendships, exchanged phone numbers, and discovered new local businesses to support. The event reflected what BFF Indy does best: creating spaces where connection feels natural, inclusive, and pressure-free.

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BFF INDY'S COMMUNITY IMPACT

45,000+ women reached across digital and in-person spaces
 

Over 100 Indiana-based partners
 

7-10 monthly events across the metro area
 

Countless friendships formed through intentional gatherings

COMMUNITY IS MORE THAN SOCIAL...
IT'S FOUNDATIONAL

In a time when loneliness and disconnection are increasingly common, BFF Indy events offer something tangible: a way for women to engage with their city and each other in meaningful ways.

 

By bringing women together in real spaces, BFF Indy helps:
 

  • Reduce social isolation
     

  • Encourage local engagement and retention
     

  • Strengthen neighborhood and small-business ecosystems
     

  • Foster long-term relationships that extend beyond events
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The birthday celebration served as a snapshot of what’s possible when community is built with intention.

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CONNECTION THAT CIRCULATES LOCALLY

Every BFF Indy event is designed to uplift Indianapolis.

Not just socially, but economically.

The birthday celebration partnered with over 15 local businesses, many of them women-owned, helping introduce new customers through authentic, relationship-driven experiences rather than traditional advertising.

 

This model allows local businesses to grow alongside the community that supports them!

FROM OUR FOUNDER

“This birthday wasn’t about a milestone, it was about watching women choose connection and community in Indianapolis, a place they call home.

Seeing people walk in alone and leave together is what BFF Indy is all about.”

A LOCAL STORY WITH BROADER RELEVANCE

The BFF Indy Birthday Celebration reflects a larger conversation happening nationwide: how adults build community, combat loneliness, and stay connected to the cities they live in.
 

For Indianapolis, it’s a story of women supporting women,

local businesses thriving through community, and a grassroots movement showing what’s possible when belonging is prioritized.

THE BFF INDY BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION WASN’T A FINISH LINE, IT WAS PROOF OF DEMAND.
 
IN A CITY WHERE THOUSANDS OF WOMEN ARE QUIETLY SEARCHING FOR CONNECTION, THIS COMMUNITY CONTINUES TO GROW BECAUSE IT’S SOLVING A PROBLEM MANY PEOPLE FEEL BUT DON’T ALWAYS KNOW HOW TO NAME.
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WHAT’S HAPPENING IN INDIANAPOLIS REFLECTS A BROADER SHIFT HAPPENING IN CITIES EVERYWHERE: ADULTS CRAVING REAL, IN-PERSON CONNECTION IN AN INCREASINGLY DISCONNECTED WORLD.
 
BFF INDY IS SHOWING WHAT’S POSSIBLE WHEN COMMUNITY IS BUILT INTENTIONALLY, AND THIS BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION WAS JUST ONE MOMENT IN A MUCH LARGER MOVEMENT STILL UNFOLDING.

CONTACT US

Interested in learning more about BFF Indy or exploring this story further? We’re happy to share additional context, insights, and interviews about community building, local impact, and what we’re seeing across Indianapolis.

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