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At BFF Indy, we’re all about fostering genuine friendships among women in the Indianapolis area. Whether you’re new to the city, looking to expand your circle, or just want to have fun, we’re here to connect you with an amazing community. Wondering what it means to be part of BFF Indy? Here’s everything you need to know.
The Story Behind BFF Indy
BFF Indy was founded by FrancesMary Loughead in December 2023, 2 years after she relocated to Indianapolis with her husband. As a Downtown Chicago native and a DePaul University graduate, FrancesMary found herself in a new city filled with incredible opportunities but missing the deep friendships that make life so special. Now working remotely as an event manager for a company based in Denver, she’s no stranger to the challenge of finding connections and building friendships when much of your day is spent online.
FrancesMary realized that while working remotely has its perks, it can also make forming new relationships difficult—especially in a new city. Inspired by Indianapolis’ vibrant community and her love for events, she created BFF Indy: a place where women could build authentic friendships in an affordable and accessible way.
Her goal? To make it easier for women to meet, connect, and support each other while exploring everything Indy has to offer. Whether through events, online groups, or local partnerships, FrancesMary wanted to ensure no woman feels alone in her journey to find her people.
BFF Indy is more than just a community—it’s a way to celebrate friendship, life, and all the amazing things happening in and around Indianapolis. We’re here to help you feel supported, inspired, and surrounded by women who truly “get it.”
Events: Where Friendships Flourish
We host 7-10 events every month to help women make friends in Indianapolis. We offer a variety of activities to fit everyone’s vibe! From rooftop yoga sessions and Galentine’s brunches to book clubs and game nights, there’s always something fun on the calendar.
Our in-person events are designed to make meeting new people comfortable, easy, and exciting—because connecting face-to-face is the best way to make lasting friendships.
Facebook Group: Stay Connected Anytime
Life gets busy, and we understand you might not make it to every event. That’s why we created the BFF Indy Facebook Group! It’s your space to:
Introduce yourself to the community
Ask questions or for recommendations.
Make plans with other members outside of official events.
Connect with women in your area or age range through focused chats. Whether you're looking for fellow 20-somethings, moms, or someone nearby for a coffee run, these chats make it easy to find your crew quickly and efficiently.
Keep up to date with the BFF Indy community!
Our Facebook Group is a vibrant extension of the BFF Indy community, keeping the friendship and support going even between events.
Instagram: Stay in the Loop
Event updates and reminders to make sure you never miss out.
Local spotlights featuring fun things to do in Indy.
Reels and recaps of past events, so you can see what we’re all about.
Exclusive BFF Indy giveaways
Instagram is your go-to for staying up-to-date with what’s happening in our community and around our city.
GroupMe: Stay Connected on the Go
We know not everyone is on Facebook and Instagram, so we’ve created a GroupMe chat to keep you in the loop! Whether you want event updates, to chat with other members, or to plan meetups, this is a great option for staying connected.
Don’t worry—if you’re already active on Facebook, you can join the GroupMe too! It’s open to everyone in the BFF Indy community. Download the app and search for us under 'BFF Indy' to get started.
Whether it’s Facebook or GroupMe, there’s a place for everyone to connect, chat, and make plans!
Blog: Explore Indianapolis Like a Pro
Our blog is packed with inspiration and tips to help you make the most of life in Indy! Whether you’re looking for:
The best local boutiques for shopping sprees.
Hidden gems for a perfect brunch.
Seasonal guides, like summer bucket lists or where to find Indy’s best fall foliage.
You’ll find it all on our website. It’s your ultimate guide to discovering and loving Indy!
Member Discounts: Perks for Being in the Community
Did you know being a part of BFF Indy comes with exclusive perks? Our Member Discount Page gives you access to deals at local businesses—from boutiques to restaurants to unique experiences. Check out the Member Discount tab on our website for the full list of partnerships and start saving while supporting local businesses.
BFF Indy is more than just a community—it’s a movement to help women connect authentically, discover our city, and make new friends. Whether you’re attending events, chatting in the Facebook Group, scrolling through Instagram, or exploring our blog, you’re part of something special.
Ready to get started? We can’t wait to meet you!
Visit our website: www.bffindianapolis.com
Check out our upcoming events: Events Calendar
Follow us on Instagram: @bff.indy
Join the Facebook Group: BFF Indy