Planning the Perfect Girls’ Night in Indianapolis: Bars, Brunch, & Connection

Finding genuine friendships as an adult isn’t always easy but at BFF Indy, we’re all about helping women in Indianapolis connect, laugh, and build real relationships through shared experiences.

Whether you’re new to the area, ready to expand your social circle, or just looking for a fun night out, this guide is for you. We’ve rounded up some of the best local spots in Northern Indy for your next girls’ night out, plus a few easy icebreaker activities to help everyone feel more at home.

Carmel’s Sun King + The Yard at Fishers District

Grab drinks and small bites at Sun King Spirits, a relaxed yet stylish spot perfect for mingling. Located right next to The Yard at Fishers District, you can make it a full evening by wandering through boutique shops or grabbing dessert at CRAVE Ice Cream Social.

🧊 Icebreaker Idea: Two Truths and a Lie Each person shares three “facts” about themselves, two that are true and one that’s made up. The group guesses which one is the fib. It’s a fun, low-pressure way to get to know surprising things about your new friends!

Painting With a Twist – Noblesville

Nothing breaks the ice like creativity. At Painting With a Twist, you don’t need to be Picasso to have a good time. Sip on wine, paint a masterpiece, and laugh at your artistic skills (or lack thereof!).

🧊 Icebreaker Idea: Paint & Tell Before the session ends, everyone does a mini “gallery tour” where they share one thing about their painting, what it represents, or how it reflects their personality. It’s a great way to blend creativity with conversation.

Peace Water Winery – Carmel Arts & Design District

A locally loved gem, Peace Water Winery offers California wines in a cozy, modern tasting room. It’s ideal for more intimate chats and getting to know each other on a deeper level.

🧊 Icebreaker Idea: Story Behind Your Name Whether it’s your full name, nickname, or something you wish you were called, everyone takes a turn sharing a quick story about their name. It’s a sweet way to open up and connect.

Pins Mechanical Co. – Bottleworks District

Want something more active? Try Pins Mechanical Co., where duckpin bowling, giant Jenga, and retro arcade games make for an incredibly fun girls’ night. It’s lively, playful, and a perfect spot to let loose.

🧊 Icebreaker Idea: Childhood Faves Each person shares their favorite childhood game or show. As the nostalgia kicks in, you’ll bond over shared memories.

Rosie’s Place – Zionsville

Who says girls' night can’t be girls' brunch? Rosie’s Place offers incredible cinnamon rolls, warm service, and an adorable small-town vibe. After a night out, regroup for a cozy Saturday morning meetup.

🧊 Icebreaker Idea: Dream Brunch Guest If you could have brunch with any woman (living or not), who would it be and why? It’s inspiring, fun, and often leads to some great deeper convos over mimosas.

Final Tips for Your BFF Indy Girls' Night:

• Carpool or rideshare to keep things eco-friendly and safe.

• Try rotating hosts so everyone gets a turn picking a new spot.

• Take group selfies and share them and tag us on Instagram @BFFIndy so we can cheer you on!

At BFF Indy, we believe in friendship on purpose. So say “yes” to that invite and head out for a night of laughter, connection, and maybe a few new besties.

👯‍♀️ Ready to plan your next girls' night in Indianapolis? Let us know your favorite Indy spot, we’re always on the lookout for new BFF hangouts!